Monday, October 25, 2010
Getting TOUGH without losing "the girl next door."
These are different times and the choice to remain single for women and men is becoming a popular way of life. However, you will find that more women then men do want to settle down. How do the women that do want a relationship and children survive in a city that promotes single behavior?
Never forget, regardless of your experiences, that there are men that do want a genuine relationship. The guys in NYC want to know that you are independent, self-sufficient and have "your own life." Still, I believe that they also like the sweeter, softer side that promotes the possibility of a relationship. That delicate side takes the edge off the cynicism.
Together, the ability to assert your independence while still remaining hopeful for a future relationship is a very sexy and appealing combination. You don't have to hide "the girl next door," just save that girl for the men who actually deserve her!