The only night of the year when you can be “yourself” in costume, Halloween! Men and women can lose their NYC inhibitions, insecurities and fear on a night when everyone is supposed to be someone else. It is not “you” behaving in this seemingly inappropriate manner, it is part of your character in costume :).
Is it a coincidence that almost every woman will be wearing a seductive version of “herself” and put on the most revealing and shocking outfits in NYC on the chilliest weekend of October? No, I find many women want to be more assertive and open. Wearing a sexy outfit that enhances a women’s sexuality is empowering on this unpredictable night to a man. Being in costume permits you see a handsome guy and feel comfortable playing the seductress that might be not as obvious on any other given day. Confidence is one of the first attractive qualities I look for in a girl.
Leave the shy conservative facade at home and let loose! Take this one night to stop speculating about the future and go with the flow. Most importantly, be safe! R.R.!